Someone please? Do not waste anymore time to procrastinate , take the first step and go to that person. Choose the right time to take the initiative and put all the chances on your side. Your turn .
Be quick !
If you think you have found your soul mate, do not wait too long. If you do not start one else could do it before you . And you stay with your regrets. Same thing if you knew on the internet. Do not spend months chatting .
Suggest a meeting in a cafe, in a park or in a museum in the first place. This will allow you to get to know and to reveal your feelings at your own pace , while having made it clear to the other that he or she does not leave you indifferent .
Choose the right time
Prefer when the person you are applying for is available! If it is a co-worker , choose a relaxing (coffee break , for example) to talk to him or offer him an outlet, rather than just before a meeting with the boss. There are many tricks to approach someone you like.
In all cases, it may be better to wait until you are alone. You will remove some of the pressure . It is not always easy to talk to friends or even strangers.
Prepare the ground
Glances , a small smile to start for example. There are many other ways to get noticed .
If the person is receptive, it is probably a good sign . If you feel interested , go for it. You have already established eye contact, go to the second step, talk to him.
Be determined and natural
Tell yourself that it's time to play all out . So be enterprising without either seem to be too sure ( e) you. It is not to scare the person you are applying by giving you the appearance of a professional seducer. In a word, be yourself .
Difficult to address someone you like is often to find topics of conversation , once found good excuse , everything becomes easier.
If you are afraid of running out of conversation topics : prepare several in advance. Write them in a corner of your head.
Identify commons :
To address your potential conquest , nothing better than to share common passions or at least to know the passions and interests of the other.
If you do not know : ask him . Tell him , for example, you are interested to know more about him or her. What he or she passes his evenings , weekends ...
Thus, it is a fan of RPGs ? Learn about the role play. She spends her Sundays in museums ? Read secretly books on the history of art . Show him that you care about his passions. Ask him about his interests .
Have common centers of interest is the best way to break the ice. And create a complicity once the relationship is underway.
Be quick !
If you think you have found your soul mate, do not wait too long. If you do not start one else could do it before you . And you stay with your regrets. Same thing if you knew on the internet. Do not spend months chatting .
Suggest a meeting in a cafe, in a park or in a museum in the first place. This will allow you to get to know and to reveal your feelings at your own pace , while having made it clear to the other that he or she does not leave you indifferent .
Choose the right time
Prefer when the person you are applying for is available! If it is a co-worker , choose a relaxing (coffee break , for example) to talk to him or offer him an outlet, rather than just before a meeting with the boss. There are many tricks to approach someone you like.
In all cases, it may be better to wait until you are alone. You will remove some of the pressure . It is not always easy to talk to friends or even strangers.
Prepare the ground
Glances , a small smile to start for example. There are many other ways to get noticed .
If the person is receptive, it is probably a good sign . If you feel interested , go for it. You have already established eye contact, go to the second step, talk to him.
Be determined and natural
Tell yourself that it's time to play all out . So be enterprising without either seem to be too sure ( e) you. It is not to scare the person you are applying by giving you the appearance of a professional seducer. In a word, be yourself .
Difficult to address someone you like is often to find topics of conversation , once found good excuse , everything becomes easier.
If you are afraid of running out of conversation topics : prepare several in advance. Write them in a corner of your head.
Identify commons :
To address your potential conquest , nothing better than to share common passions or at least to know the passions and interests of the other.
If you do not know : ask him . Tell him , for example, you are interested to know more about him or her. What he or she passes his evenings , weekends ...
Thus, it is a fan of RPGs ? Learn about the role play. She spends her Sundays in museums ? Read secretly books on the history of art . Show him that you care about his passions. Ask him about his interests .
Have common centers of interest is the best way to break the ice. And create a complicity once the relationship is underway.
